Getting Along

Planning your wedding can be a stressful time in your life. Here are a few ideas to keep the love flowing between you and your intended.

Don’t Call Names. Labels do nothing but create anger and hostility, and will certainly not help to find a solution over cutting the guest list.

Don’t Blame. When something is wrong, choose your words wisely. It is important to use words like "I feel" instead of saying something like "You’re wrong".

Listen. Marriage Counselors agree that the biggest complaint in struggling relationships is that one partner feels as though the other one isn’t listening.

Apologize and Forgive. Don’t be so filled up with pride that you won’t ask for forgiveness.

Be Thoughtful and Flexible. Next week you are scheduled to meet with three vendors, on your fiancé's birthday. Show him how much you appreciate him and reschedule some appointments and plan a fun night out.

Take a Break. It’s important for both of you to take a break from wedding planning.